Designing Your Life

How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life

Bill Burnett and Dave Evans · 2016 · Career

13 min · 13 chaptersNarrated in your voice

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What it's about

Bill Burnett and Dave Evans, creators of Stanford's popular life-design course, argue that career and life confusion is not a problem to solve once with the right analysis, but an ongoing design challenge to be worked through experiment and iteration. Borrowing tools from product design—prototyping, reframing, wayfinding—they offer a repeatable method for people who feel stuck, mismatched, or uncertain about what to do with their working lives, replacing the search for one correct answer with a practice of building and testing many possible lives.

Reading plan

Pick a finish date and Genius lays out the days — the plan shows today's target and keeps you honest.

Read together

Start a circle and share the code — everyone sees everyone's honest place in the book. Accountability, not leaderboards.

Who it's for

- A twenty-something who chose a major or first job by default and now feels no attachment to either - A mid-career professional who is competent at their work but privately bored or misaligned with it - Anyone facing a transition (layoff, return from caregiving, retirement) who wants a structured way to generate options rather than panic into the first one

What’s inside

1
Life Is a Wicked Problem
Careers and life paths are wicked problems without a single correct solution, so treating them as puzzles to be solved once guarantees frustration rather than progress.
1 min
2
Five Habits of Mind
Adopting curiosity, bias to action, reframing, awareness of process, and radical collaboration produces better life decisions than willpower or better planning alone.
1 min
3
Build a Compass Before You Build a Path
Clarifying a workview and a lifeview, and checking whether they cohere, matters more at the start than picking a specific job or plan.
1 min
4
Know Which Problems You Can Actually Solve
Misdiagnosing an unchangeable 'gravity problem' as something you can fix through more effort or the right plan wastes years that could go toward problems that actually move.
1 min
5
Navigate by Energy and Engagement, Not by Destination
Because long-term goals are poor predictors of what will actually satisfy you, tracking daily energy and engagement is a more reliable compass than a fixed destination.
1 min
6
Write Three Lives, Not One
Generating three separate five-year plans, rather than one, breaks the assumption that there is a single correct path and reveals what you actually value by comparison.
1 min
7
Prototype Before You Commit
Career decisions should be tested through small, cheap, real-world trials before being made, the same way a product design goes through prototypes before mass production.
1 min
8
Networking Beats Applications
Applying to posted job listings is one of the least effective ways to find good work, so a life-design job search should run mainly through structured conversations with your existing and expanding network.
1 min
9
Choose Well Rather Than Choose Right
Treating decisions as good-enough choices to commit to and build on, rather than searches for the objectively best option, produces more satisfaction than endless comparison.
1 min
10
Build a Team, Not a Solo Journey
Life design works better run inside a small accountability group than alone, because self-assessment about your own patterns and blind spots is unreliable.
1 min
11
Where Life Design Runs Thin
2 min
12
Final summary
1 min
13
Actionable advice
1 min

About Bill Burnett and Dave Evans

Bill Burnett directs the Design Program at Stanford University and worked as a mechanical engineer at Apple, including on the original mouse. Dave Evans co-founded Electronic Arts and later taught product design at Stanford. Together they built Stanford's Life Design Lab and its long-running course, from which this book's method was drawn.