
Engage, Teach, Persuade, and Change Your Life through the Power of Storytelling
Matthew Dicks · 2018 · Communication
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Matthew Dicks, an elementary school teacher and multiple-time Moth GrandSLAM champion, argues that the ability to tell a compelling true story is a learnable craft, not an innate gift. He claims most people fail at storytelling because they recount events instead of dramatizing change, and he offers a repeatable method—built around noticing daily life and isolating the exact moment a person shifts—for turning ordinary experience into stories that move an audience.
Pick a finish date and Genius lays out the days — the plan shows today's target and keeps you honest.
Start a circle and share the code — everyone sees everyone's honest place in the book. Accountability, not leaderboards.
- A professional preparing a wedding toast, eulogy, or work presentation who wants it to actually land - A writer or teacher who wants a concrete method for finding and shaping personal material - Someone who has told the same three anecdotes for a decade and wants new, better ones
A story is valuable not because of what happened but because of how the teller changed in a single moment, which means most chronological recountings of events are not really stories at all.
The scarcity of good stories in most people's lives is not a scarcity of experience but a failure of daily attention, and that failure is fixable with a five-minute nightly habit.
Every worthwhile story pivots on a single instant lasting only seconds, and locating that instant before drafting anything is what keeps a story from sprawling into a list of events.
A story's structure is a bridge between who the narrator was before the five-second moment and who they became after it, not a sequence of events, and material that doesn't serve that bridge should be cut regardless of how true or interesting it is.
Idiosyncratic, oddly specific detail creates broader emotional connection with an audience than any attempt to speak in general, universally relatable terms.
A story's first line should drop the audience into action already underway, because preambles explaining context before the story starts are the single most common reason audiences disengage early.
A story should end at the moment its meaning becomes clear, not linger afterward to explain that meaning, because stated morals undercut work the story has already done.
Great storytelling is practiced until it feels natural but is never memorized word for word, because word-for-word memorization produces recitation rather than connection with a live audience.
Matthew Dicks is an elementary school teacher in Connecticut, a novelist, and a competitive storyteller who has won the Moth's GrandSLAM championship more than a dozen times. He founded Speak Up, a Hartford-based storytelling organization and coaching business, and has trained thousands of people to tell stories for the stage, the classroom, and the boardroom.