To Sell Is Human

The Surprising Truth About Moving Others

Daniel H. Pink · 2012 · Business

12 min · 11 chaptersNarrated in your voice

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What it's about

Daniel Pink argues that traditional sales jobs have shrunk while an unnamed activity he calls 'non-sales selling' has exploded: doctors persuading patients, teachers persuading students, entrepreneurs persuading investors. Drawing on psychology and economics research, he replaces the old salesman's toolkit with three new capacities—attunement, buoyancy, and clarity—and argues that in a world of information parity, honest, other-focused persuasion beats manipulation. The book mattered because it recast selling as a universal human skill rather than a specialized, slightly disreputable trade.

Reading plan

Pick a finish date and Genius lays out the days — the plan shows today's target and keeps you honest.

Read together

Start a circle and share the code — everyone sees everyone's honest place in the book. Accountability, not leaderboards.

Who it's for

- A manager who wants employees to see pitching ideas internally as a form of selling worth studying - A freelancer or entrepreneur who hates the word 'sales' but spends all day persuading clients - Anyone in a service, teaching, or caregiving role who regularly needs others to change their minds or behavior

What’s inside

1
We're All in Sales Now
The traditional line between 'salespeople' and everyone else is mostly fictional, since most modern jobs require moving others without any exchange of money.
1 min
2
From Caveat Emptor to Caveat Venditor
Because buyers now have nearly as much information as sellers, old-style one-sided persuasion tactics have stopped working and transparency has become the more effective strategy.
1 min
3
Attunement
Being a moderate mix of extroversion and introversion makes a person more persuasive than being strongly extroverted, because good influence depends on reading others more than performing at them.
1 min
4
Buoyancy
Persistence through rejection depends less on innate optimism than on a specific mental habit of questioning yourself rather than asserting confidence before a difficult task.
1 min
5
Clarity
In an environment saturated with information, the more valuable persuasive skill is not answering questions but surfacing problems people did not know they had.
1 min
6
Pitching
The traditional single elevator pitch is outdated, and shorter, more interactive pitch formats work better because they invite a response instead of delivering a monologue.
1 min
7
Improvising
Effective persuasion behaves more like a jazz duet governed by 'yes, and' than a rehearsed script, because real conversations require adapting to what the other person actually says.
1 min
8
Serving
Persuasion is only justifiable, and only durable, when it leaves the other person genuinely better off, which means sellers must ask whether the world improves because of what they sold.
1 min
9
Where the Argument Runs Thin
2 min
10
Final summary
1 min
11
Actionable advice
1 min

About Daniel H. Pink

Daniel H. Pink is an American author of several bestselling books on work and behavior, including 'Drive' and 'A Whole New Mind.' He worked as chief speechwriter for Vice President Al Gore before turning to writing about business and psychology, drawing heavily on academic research to challenge conventional workplace wisdom.